You Got A Friend In Me?

Thursday, March 08, 2007

Friends....
can you live without a friend?
When siblings and parents are hard to turn to when we're down...this is where friends are needed. But how true are friends to you when things really take a toll on you? when life is great? when things turn sour? Is your friend really there for you when you need them? Are you appreciated by them when you're nice to them?

Symbiosis and parasite...what flashes to your mind right now?
Basically, its simple...symbiosis is where you scratch my back and I scratch yours....and parasites? don't tell me you don't know what are those. Friends...I can say...can be divided into those 2 category and I've experience lots of parasites than to symbiotic friends in life. What do we actually get when we be nice to our friends? fame? recognition? praises? cheap publicity? No...we just want the same thing back...or at least be appreciated. Having friends that don't thank you or appreciate you are mostly parasites...which they hardly realize it themselves or maybe their just playing the cards right in their life *God knows....it's a free country*

But...they're still our friends but parasiting on us...people like me still tend to me nice...because it's formalities and still have that dumb hope that the friend will actually realize something. Sadly, they tend to space themselves...pretending they got nothing got to do with you...talking to them is harder than telling a dog to sit. Ya..honestly, I do play the parasite role too...but there's still formalities...like hello, how are you, everything okay?

Symbiotic friends are the ones who are next to us when we need them *at least for the current time*..but it's good enough because we know we can turn to them when we need them. Friends like this are kinda rare these days as the community really change....Teens are really starting to act like the Government at an early age *if you now what I mean*. Therefore, cherish these friends that you have now and don't neglect them...

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